Family Life Consultants


"The only time you should ever look back is to see how far you've come"



Meet Our Therapists



Sandra becker-warden



MSW, LCSW, ACSW, BCD





Sandra Becker-Warden has provided counseling as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 30 years to individuals, couples, families, and groups. She graduated Cum Laude with a BSW in Social Work, and double majored in psychotherapy at Wartburg College in Waverly, IA. After practicing as a school social worker in IA, she attended Washington University, George Warren School of Social Work, where she graduated with a MSW. Over the years, she has obtained advanced training and developed clinical expertise in a number of areas. Some of the areas include child/adolescent behavior and communication patterns, couple communication, eating disorders, grief, trauma, anxiety, and depression. Sandra enjoys working with all ages from toddlers to senior adults.


In 1983, Sandra started her private practice that today operates as Family Life Consultants, Inc. FLC offers services in 2 locations and their surrounding areas in Collinsville, IL and Lake Ozark, MO. Her mission is to provide comprehensive quality service through linking clients to the FLC therapist best suited to address their specific problems.



Laurie Wesselmann



LCPC





Laurie Wesselmann obtained her Bachelors Degree in Psychology from SIU-Carbondale, then later achieved a life goal of completing her Master's Degree in Mental Health Counseling from Capella University in 2017. Prior to working as a licensed counselor, she provided case management and other social services for over 20 years. Laurie has training and experience in Trauma-based counseling and Mindfulness, primarily with adolescents and adults, and uses a person-centered approach to understand each person’s unique needs. She is passionate about helping diverse individuals overcome difficulties, find enjoyment in life, and improve their mental health to become the best version of themselves.



LYNN LAUBER



MSW, LCSW





Lynn received her Bachelor of Social Work degree from Valparaiso University, IN, and Master of Social Work from Washington University, MO. After having worked as a school counselor at the grade school level for nine years, and at the high school level for fifteen, Lynn transitioned to working with adults in a clinical setting 14 years ago. She helps clients work through relationship issues, learn new communication skills, process emotions, and learn new tools for dealing with anxiety, depression and stress. Lynn has a particular interest in working with those who are experiencing life changes, including grief and loss, and is able to offer services utilizing a Christian perspective, for those who find that framework helpful. She is most comfortable using solution-focused brief therapy with adults and couples.



RICARDIA HENDERSON



MSW, LCSW





Ricardia obtained her Bachelors in Psychology from St. Mary's College in Leavenworth, Kansas and then obtained her Masters in Social Work from St. Louis University. Ricardia is a licensed social worker in Illinois and Missouri. For the last 19 years, she has provided direct care to individuals addressing their mental health and maternal health needs through resource linkage and advocacy. For the last two years, Ricardia has been the supervisor for shelter outreach services for a local community mental health center. She works with those who are 16 years and older addressing issues related to poor communication, depression, trauma, anxiety, strained relationships, poor family dynamics and low self-esteem using Talk Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Gestalt Therapy and Crisis Intervention working with individuals and couples. Ricardia is a member of Sigma Gamma Rho, Inc.



JORDYN LAUB



MSW, LCSW





Jordyn is a therapist with a deep passion for working with couples. She is dedicated to helping partners strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and deepen both emotional and physical intimacy. Jordyn brings warmth, authenticity, and a collaborative spirit to her work, creating a space where couples feel understood, supported, and empowered to lean into discomfort. Her approach helps transform stuck patterns into meaningful opportunities for connection and growth.

Jordyn is currently completing a year-long mentorship with an advanced therapist trained in the Gottman Method and certified in sex therapy. Through this experience, she continues to deepen her expertise in evidence-based couples therapy while expanding her ability to support clients in the most intimate and vulnerable aspects of their relationships. In addition to couples work, Jordyn also supports individual adults seeking personal growth, emotional clarity, and healthier relationship patterns. Her style is compassionate, grounded, and down-to-earth, while thoughtfully challenging clients to build insight and create lasting change. Whether you’re looking to reconnect with your partner or realign with yourself, Jordyn offers a supportive space to do the work that matters most.



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kayla mcsherry



MSW, LSW





Kayla graduated from Southern Illinois University Edwardsville with a Master of Social Work and Minor in Psychology. She specializes in offering therapy for children, teens, and adults, addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, general life stressors, and grief. Kayla utilizes a variety of therapeutic approaches, including talk therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Family Systems Theory, Person-Centered approach, and Person-in-Environment theory tailoring treatment to meet each individual's unique needs. She is deeply committed to creating a compassionate, nonjudgmental space where clients feel not only heard but truly understood. Kayla believes that healing begins with empathy, and her goal is to walk alongside each person as they navigate their journey, offering support, encouragement, and care every step of the way.



Madelyn Monge



MSW, LCSW





Madelyn Monge, LCSW, is a holistic therapist who integrates evidence-based clinical modalities with mind–body and energy-informed approaches to support whole-person healing. She obtained her Master of Social Work degree from Southern Illinois University Edwardsville and graduated summa cum laude from Illinois College in Jacksonville, Illinois, with Bachelor’s degrees in Psychology and Sociology, concentrating in Mental Health Disorders. During her undergraduate studies, she also completed coursework in Neuroscience and Gender & Women’s Studies.

Madelyn has completed and currently practices using trainings in Emotional Freedom Techniques (tapping), Emotion Code, and ThetaHealing, which she incorporates when clinically appropriate to support emotional processing and regulation. She is deeply interested in human behavior and cognition, particularly how thoughts, emotions, and lived experiences shape one’s perception of self and the world. Her clinical approach is influenced in unconditional positive regard and client-centered therapy, inspired by Carl Rogers, with a strong commitment to creating a safe, non-judgmental space where clients feel empowered to share their stories openly and move toward self-determination and healing.

Madelyn works with individuals experiencing grief and loss, life transitions, career and academic stress, and relationship strain. She also supports clients in reconnecting with their sense of identity, autonomy, and inner stability after periods of emotional disruption or life change. Her integrative therapeutic approach uses holistic styles rooted in several ancient Chinese energy-based healing systems with more traditional and modern therapeutic styles, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), person-centered therapy, and talk therapy. When blended together, these approaches support emotional regulation and mind–body awareness.



Megan McCart



MSW, LCSW





Megan is a dedicated mental health therapist specializing in creating a warm, collaborative space where you or your loved one can thrive. With a passion for supporting individuals aged 15 & up, she is here to walk alongside you on your journey toward mental well-being. Whether you’re a teenager navigating the complexities of adolescence, an adult dealing with transitions in life, or anywhere in between, her aim is to meet you where you are and help you move forward. Megan works with individuals dealing with anxiety, depression, college and career planning, relationship issues, and more. At the heart of Megan’s practice is a client-centered approach. This means that she truly believes in the uniqueness of each person and the importance of tailoring your work together to fit your specific needs, goals, and values. Megan’s role is to listen, understand, and support you providing a safe environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Her approach is flexible and personalized, focusing on empowering you to develop strategies and insights that resonate with your personal experiences. Megan is deeply committed to fostering an environment where everyone feels heard & valued.


Heather vickery



MSW, LSW





Heather earned a bachelor's degree in psychology from Wesley College, a Master of Education from Wilmington University, and a Master's dDegree in Social Work from Louisiana State University. Heather is a dedicated social worker serving teens (14+) through adults, with a passion for helping her clients navigate anxiety, trauma, and relationship challenges. A retired military spouse and proud mom of two adult daughters, she brings both professional expertise and personal experience to her work. Heather uses a blend of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and trauma-informed care to create a supportive, goal-focused space for healing and growth. Heather is also certified in Brainspotting, a powerful, neuroscience-based therapeutic approach that helps clients access, process, and release deeply rooted trauma and emotional pain. This technique supports healing by working with the brain-body connection, allowing clients to move beyond talk therapy and into deeper emotional resolution. When she’s not in session, you’ll find her staying active and planning her next travel adventure.



Taylor Mulherin



MSW, LSW





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Rachel Frazure



MSW, LCSW





Rachel received her Master of Social Work degree from Southern Illinois University Edwardsville. Her experience as a social worker includes assisting children with developmental and physical disabilities and partnering with their parents and family members to provide support and resources. She also has experience as a hospital oncology social worker, which allowed her to support patients and their families through the patient's health journey and through times of health crisis. Prior to obtaining her social work degree, Rachel served as director for a local Christian children’s ministry for 14 years, and during that time began a disability ministry, leading a team of volunteers who serve children and adults with developmental and physical disabilities, while also providing support and encouragement to their families. As a therapist, she views life as a journey and that we are all life-long learners - developing as a person each step of the way and at the same time, navigating through times of joy and contentment, as well as times of loss and disappointment. Rachel specializes in offering therapy for individuals ages preteen through senior adults, addressing issues such as changes in life as we age and its stressors, plus, those clients dealing with anxiety, depression and grief. Rachel believes in meeting a person where they are and using empathy and compassion to address needs that are unique to that individual. She strives to actively listen and in turn, partner with her clients, providing relevant tools and resources, as they seek guidance and counsel.



taylor eschbach



LMSW





Taylor, MSW, LMSW, LSW is a therapist providing individual counseling, specializing in teenagers and adults experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, and stress. Taylor graduated with her Master in Social Work at Southern Illinois University Edwardsville. She offers both in-person and virtual sessions to accommodate clients’ needs. Taylor's approach is primarily person-centered and humanistic, creating a supportive environment where individuals feel heard and understood. She also integrates psychodynamic techniques to help clients explore and gain deeper insight into how past experiences influence their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors



Valla Diskin



Practicum Student





Valla’s name is pronounced (Val-luh). Valla uses she/they pronouns. Valla is completing her practicum here at Family Life Consultants. Valla is set to graduate from Southern Illinois University Edwardsville (SIUE) with her Master’s in Social Work (MSW) at the beginning of August 2026 and will be a Licensed Social Worker (LSW) in the state of Illinois shortly afterwards.

Valla provides individual therapy and facilitates support groups for teens and adults experiencing a variety of challenges, including: anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationships, life transitions, pregnancy, abortion, sexuality, gender, and more.

Valla operates from an eclectic feminist framework while also integrating other therapy modalities into the space. Valla is a LGBTQIA+ affirming therapist who values having an anti-racist, anti-oppressive, trauma-informed approach to therapy. Valla strives to provide a safe space for her clients that promotes reflection and healing.

Valla also utilizes a variety of therapeutic methods including, but not limited to: cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), humanistic therapy, and solutions focused therapy (SFT). Valla uses a person-centered approach in which she honors her clients’ autonomy and self-determination and collaborates with them to help them reach their goals.



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Family Life Consultants
2014 Vandalia St.
Collinsville, IL 62234
Phone: 618-345-9536
Fax: 618-345-9587